I'm a 34yo female that has been with the same man for 15 years and we have been married for 7 years. We have has our fair share of problems like any married couple, but little did I know that our problems were way bigger than I thought.
After our 7th wedding anniversary my husband confessed to me that he does not love, and it seemed that he never truly loved me. He said he married me for his own selfish reasons and did not mean our vows.
I truly love my husband with all me heart and his revelation is making my world crumble down. I was blindsided and feel like I have lost and will be losing so much.
-I have lost my youth and 15 years of my life which I could have spent loving someone who deserved it or at the very least loves me.
-I have lost career opportunities not working for FMCGs that will be deemed a competitor of his work and hence have settled for work that is of lower pay.
-We have invested in a house that is not legally ours (legally owned by his parents) and in essence will leave me homeless if my husabnd proceeds to separate with me.
-My greatest fear in life is one day I will be without him, and wth the prospect of him leaving or not loving me, he in essenc eia making me live my worst nightmare
-I have build my hopes and dreams factoring in my husabnd, and now even those are a distant memory
-Since there is no divorce in the Philippines and annulment is very expensive, the possibility of remarrying is not high. If I decide to try find happiness with another man when it comes to that, I may even be charged with annulment
Life as I know it and hoped for has come undone.
In trying to rebuild myself, at the very least I dont want to worry about how I can afford living on my own. And that is why I am creating this gofundme to aid in my grief and moving forward. I already have a broken heart to problematize, do I really need to deal with the rest of the shit that comes with it?
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